Discover Find Singles, who it's for, what it costs, what happens to your personal information, and what happens when someone behaves badly.
Who it's for
Single adults in New Zealand who genuinely want to meet someone. That might be a relationship, fun-filled dates or simply conversation and companionship.
Open to singles of all ages (over 18), you will find our member suggestions good at recommending people you might like to connect with or you can set your own search criteria to meet people who match your age, interests or location.
What using it is like
Make a profile, add a photo and some words about yourself. Look around, like the people you're interested in, and see who has liked you. Send a message when you're ready or join a themed group chat to get to know people a bit better first.
- Other members see a username and your nearest town. Not your real name or your exact location.
- ID or video verification is optional. If you do it, you get a badge on your profile.
- It works in your browser on a phone or a computer. On a phone you can add it to your home screen and it opens like an app without downloading any third party software.
The step-by-step is on the How it works page.
What it costs
Joining is free, and so is browsing. Free accounts get one profile photo and messaging limits. If you want more, there are paid levels which can increase messaging limits and boost your profile views.
Below is a detailed breakdown of what is available on all membership tiers.
| Feature | Classic |
VIP
|
VIPPlus
|
|---|---|---|---|
| Create a free account | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Browse member profiles | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Daily match suggestions | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Post status updates & photos | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Comment on articles & posts | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Participate in polls & quizzes | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Limited daily messages | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Read & reply to VIP/VIP+ messages | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Free ID verification | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Admin profile validation | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Badges (Verified, Chatterbox, Heartthrob, Most Popular) | ✓ | ✓ | ✓ |
| Unrestricted messaging | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Advanced search filters | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Exclusive chat room access | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Private group chats (up to 50) | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Rewind swipes | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| See everyone who likes you | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Priority comment placement | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Premium Content Paywall | — | ✓ | ✓ |
| Exclusive matches | — | — | ✓ |
| Priority message & like placement | — | — | ✓ |
| Boosted profile visibility | — | — | ✓ |
| Top of match stack | — | — | ✓ |
When something goes wrong
Block or report anyone who causes concern. Our responsive support team take abuse or potential scammers seriously.
If a conversation asks you for money, or tries to move to WhatsApp or text early, report it. Both are common signs of a romance scam. Netsafe has plain advice on how these work, and it's worth five minutes before you start chatting to anyone. Our safety guide covers the rest, including meeting up.
What we do with your details
Your personal details are kept secure in accordance with data protection laws. If you want to know more about our privacy policy, you can view it here.
What we won't do
- We won't show your real name, address or email address to other members.
- We won't share your details with third party advertisers or marketers.
- We won't ask for your password, ever.
Contact
Questions, problems, or a request about your account: write to us using the contact form or email address on the Contact page. The legal detail, including who provides the service, is in the Terms.
Last updated 22 October 2026